Oregon Mediation Association

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Stephanie Leffler – President

Stephanie (she / her) began her career in wood products in the 1980’s working her way up to manage teams in male-dominated industries. She has worked in manufacturing, retail, wholesale, restaurant, public, and non-profit industries in executive and leadership roles. She spent most of her career in Human Resources. Her areas of expertise include mediating workplace conflict and negotiation of collective bargaining contracts. She enjoys helping folks through organizational change and coaching executives on the most difficult subject matters.

Stephanie holds degrees in criminal justice, management, human resources, and is a senior certified human resource professional through the Human Resource Certification Institute (HRCI) and the Society of Human Resource Managers (SHRM). Stephanie began volunteering at Neighbor-To-Neighbor Mediation (CDRC) in 2013 and completed her training that year. She enjoys mentoring people and helping them become business owners and leaders.

Email: president@ormediation.org

Paul Allen – Vice President

Paul was formally on the OMA standards and practices committee, former OMA board member, and mediation practitioner. He is a positive realist, lover of human beings, curiosity, wisdom of many years of experience.

In 1970, I was an expectant father starting my career. My first promotion was to sweeper. I chose to excel; people smiled and appreciated me! My Secret to success! 50+ years later, bestowed with a myriad of accomplishments, I continue to love who I am becoming! Please consider this thought: Trust me, it is much easier to love others when you first love yourself.

Email: vp@ormediation.org

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Robert Milesnick – Secretary

An experienced employment law litigator, former Assistant U.S. Attorney, and a certified mediator for the past 23 years, Rob is the principal and founder of Craft Mediation Northwest, an employment and workplace conflict resolution boutique. With almost two decades of workplace litigation experience, and as a participate or mediator in over 200 mediations, during his appointment with the Oregon U.S. Attorney’s Office, he served a collateral duty assignment with the U.S. Department of Justice EEO Mediator Corps to mediate employment disputes for the Executive Office of United States Attorneys.

Rob uses interpersonal, facilitative, and evaluative techniques to mediate litigation disputes, and fact finding, culture and climate audits, and implementation of conflict systems designs (preventative and responsive) to improve group and organizational effectiveness. He received his BA from Virginia Commonwealth University in English and Psychology in 1999 and his JD from Syracuse University College of Law in 2002. He has completed advanced conflict resolution training from the Syracuse University College of Law mediation assistance program, worked as mediator for New Justice Conflict Resolution Services, and has completed advanced mediation and negotiations training from the U.S. Department of Justice and the National Advocacy Center, and from the Harvard Law School Program on Negotiation.

Rob is passionate about helping Oregon, working to resolve individual and organizational conflict, and is excited to support the OMA, its members, and its many court, community mediation, and conflict resolution partners in Oregon and throughout the country.

Email: secretary@ormediation.org

Steve Leskin – Director

Steve is currently serving on the Standards and Practices Committee. He has spent twenty-five years as a trial attorney in Oregon specializing in tort and professional malpractice litigation, federal administrative law, and domestic relations.

I am an experienced trial attorney with hundreds of mediations, arbitrations, and administrative hearings. Long-time municipal judge and two-term Assistant Disciplinary Counsel. I am experienced in all areas of law practice management and technology. I have been focused almost exclusively on mediation and arbitration since January 2023. My non legal experience includes founding the companies DeNovo Decisions and Pleading Technologies. I was the Port Manager for the Port of Siuslaw from 2016 to 2017, and I have a background in computer coding.

Email: boardseat6@ormediation.org

Connie McKelvey – Director

Connie is an attorney who has served as an active litigator of civil disputes since 1983. In that capacity, she has also seen the power of mediation to resolve disputes without the risks, uncertainty, and expense of litigation. Connie’s legal practice has focused on the defense of professionals including physicians, medical clinics, dentists, and hospitals as well as attorneys and law firms. She has substantial experience with claims involving sexual misconduct or boundary issues. She has tried to defense verdict numerous professional liability claims. She also assists clients outside the courtroom, including representation before health care licensing boards, professional peer review, regulatory issues, HIPAA compliance, and contract disputes.

Connie is respected by both sides of the bar for her compassion and professionalism. She has been regularly endorsed as one of the top lawyers nationwide by the most respected peer review organizations in the nation including Martindale-Hubbell, the Best Lawyers in America, Who’s Who in American Law and Super Lawyers. In 2021 her peers recognized her as Best Lawyers, Lawyer of the Year for Health Care Law and in 2022 they recognized her as Best Lawyers, Lawyer of the Year for Legal Malpractice Law- Defendants.

Connie has a special interest in alternative dispute resolution of professional liability claims and is certified by the American Health Lawyers Association as Dispute Resolution Neutral which gives her the opportunity to resolve disputes involving health care providers, including disagreements between hospitals and clinics, disputes between providers, and pre-litigation resolution of claims by patients against health care providers. She has expanded her practice to mediation of all types of claims after undergoing extensive mediation training through the Straus Institute for Dispute Resolution at Pepperdine School of Law during COVID 19. She has been a participant in hundreds of mediations and has now actively facilitating mediations. Connie joined the Board as she is relatively new to serving as a mediator and she would like to get to know and learn from others.

Email: boardseat7@ormediation.org

Jennifer Nackos – Director

Jennifer Nackos (she/her) is honored to serve as one of OMA’s Board of Directors, alongside fellow peacebuilders. She was born in South Korea and raised in the United States. She is a certified mediator and Restorative Justice facilitator with a strong understanding of intercultural fluency, whether it be on an international, ethnic, religious, community, or even family level. This perspective allows her to see people broadly with an understanding that “different” can be beautiful. Because of this, Jennifer is also connected to Mediators Beyond Borders International (MBBI).

Jennifer holds a bachelor’s degree in Russian language and culture. In 1995, she lived in eastern Ukraine for over a year, residing in the Donetsk Oblast and Kharkiv. She also completed an M.S. in Conflict Resolution. Formal education taught her valuable concepts and theories that explain why and how conflicts occur. More importantly, real-life experiences have magnified the importance of learning and teaching how to manage them better. She believes this is fundamentally important because angry people do angry things, frustrated people do frustrating things, and sad people can do very sad things.

Email: boardseat8@ormediation.org

Maggie Stahl – Administrator

As a first time mom, I currently enjoy taking my son on adventures which include going to museums, parks, hiking trails, aquariums and the zoo! When I’m not entertaining my son I love baking, cooking, and reading. I find enjoyment in making my son’s food to provide a healthier alternative to some of the mass-produced options at the grocery store. Being an avid reader; I’m part of a monthly book club, and spend a lot of my free time reading.

I’ve used mediation in many situations when working in HR, but after taking meditation classes in college I’ve realized we use mediation frequently in our everyday lives. I believe in mediation and think it’s the best first method in many scenarios. I’m very excited to join OMA and hope to help in any way I can!

Email: oma@ormediation.org

Lanie Toledo – Administrator

Lanie is a full-time mom of three, including her eldest child who is on the autism spectrum. Her personal journey as a mother has deepened her appreciation for the value of mediation—not only as a professional tool but as a way of life.

Lanie believes that mediation starts at home. Whether navigating sibling rivalry or teaching her children how to resolve conflicts peacefully, she sees everyday parenting as a living practice of conflict resolution. She draws on these real-life experiences to support the mission of OMA: promoting peaceful, constructive dialogue and solutions across all communities.